Many fond memories over the years since we first met at Wagner College in 1961. Rest in peace "little brother". Our deepest sympathy to all family and friends.
Fred & Dee

To Jay, Kimberly, Keith and Family,
Our deepest sympathy to you on the loss of your father. He was always so friendly and will surely be missed. God bless.
The Baker Family
Bob, Jane, Rob and Family

My prayers for Jay and his family. Jay was a great high school teammate.

Jay was a great team mate at RBC. I am extremely saddened to learn of his passing.

Jay: So glad we had our many get togethers in Florida, especially when Luke got his haircut. I will always remember them. Love, your little sis,Terry

To the Family and Friends of Jay J. Abbes,

My wife Fran and I were very fortunate to have known Jay during our high school years at Red Bank Catholic High School, Red Bank New Jersey. I was also fortunate to be able to say Jay was a friend and a teammate on the RBCHS football and baseball teams. Under Jay's leadership and outstanding athletic ability the football teams, during our high school year's, completed back to back undefeated seasons. Our prayers are with Jay and his family and friends at this time and forever. So long for now good friend.

Fran(62) and Chuck Thompson (62) RBCHS

As a longtime friend of Kimberly, I've heard many wonderful stories about her dad over the years. Our thoughts and prayers are with her and her family at this very sad time. Love, Lisa, Craig & Adam Cooper

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We only met Jay once but his charm and easy going personality made a lasting impression. He will be missed by many.

My thoughts and prayers are with you guys. I only met him a few times but he seemed to love life and his family. He always had a smile on his face. He is your Angel now and looking over the family.